Grief and loss are among the most difficult experiences we encounter in life. As adults, we frequently encounter difficulty in articulating our sorrow, let alone assisting a child in navigating such an emotional voyage. The objective of this article, which is motivated by my personal experience as a nurse practitioner, is to offer solace and direction to those assisting children in navigating the intricate emotions associated with loss.

The Function of a Parent or Counselor
Your role in a child's life during a period of bereavement is essential, whether you are a parent or counselor. It is crucial to approach these delicate conversations with grace, kindness, and a foundation rooted in truth as children turn to us for reassurance and understanding. Please bear in mind that a child's inquiries and emotions are an inherent aspect of their bereavement process. It is entirely appropriate to experience sorrow, as Jesus himself did. This moment presents a valuable opportunity to instruct them on God's assurance that He will always be present, even in our most difficult circumstances.

Discovering Solace in Faith
Our faith is one of the most potent resources at our disposal during sorrow. Scripture provides solace and reminds us that we are never truly alone. Building a solid foundation of faith through sharing these teachings with your child can provide them with a sense of peace and tranquility during challenging times. Remind your child that God's love is eternal and His presence is always with us, providing solace and fortitude as you read together when we require it most.

The Therapeutic Influence of Conversation
It is imperative to foster candid discussions regarding mourning and loss. No matter how challenging they may be, permit your child to articulate their emotions and pose inquiries. In doing so, you assist them in the healthy processing of their grief and validating their emotions. During this period, it is essential to not only offer your child solace but also to emphasize that grieving is a natural and essential component of the healing process.

A Prayer for Recovery
I hope the teachings of scripture provide you with solace as you accompany your child on this voyage. May you be a source of fortitude for your child, assisting them in navigating their grief with compassion and faith. It is important to remember that God is always present, providing His affection and support in the face of every challenge.

With warm regards and prayers for you and your family,

Lori Vasquez, RN, PMHNP-BC

Mind Over Matter Care